得到的永远比不上没得到的

当你还没完全得到那个你心仪的人的时候

所有关于他/她的东西你会很在乎

同时你的blog, fb... ... 都跟他/她扯得上关系

他/她的信息他/她的电话都是你每天必须要收到的

他/她成了你生活的一部分

不管大事或小事你都要告诉他/她

你要和他/她分享每一件事情

你为他/她做任何事

作卡片, 作video...

当你拥有了她... ...

你还会像从前一样的对他/她吗?

得不到的东西往往都是比得到的来的好...

得到的永远比不上没得到的...

就像你很喜欢一样东西

最后你终于得到了

但...过了一段时间

你就不再珍惜那个从前你爱的要生要死的东西了...

很多人认为得不到的都是好的

因为

他们都不知道他/她是怎样的

也许你说了解

但

你真的了解吗?

what a touching song

This song really touch my heart touch my soul...

year 1 sem 2

Time really flies...
it's end of the year 1 sem 2...
and final exam is coming soon...
that's y I'm preparing for the exam now...
doing revision x999999999...
before college life I never ever put my effort on my studies...
now I'm enjoyed myself in my college life all the time...
I believe that it's not too late to be hardworking...
I believe I can do better and better...
dont look back....
a still better tomorrow lies ahead of me...
I believe how much effort I put, how much repay I will get...
''whatever a man sow, that shall he also reap''...
I wont let someone to have a chance to look down on me..
just put effort everything will be ok...
I know that God will always be my side...
I dont need to worry about the test...
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7)
I dont need to worry during the exam I cannot understand the question...
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverb 3:5-6)
I dont need to worry I will be too nervous and unable to concentrate...
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. (John 14:27)
I dont need to worry after exam how is my result..
Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. (Psalm 37:4)
I dont need to worry I cannot pass the exam...
No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. (Corinthians 10:13)
I dont need to worry all such these question...
I just believe in God...

now i pray to LORD...
Heavenly Father, I pray that my mind might be rested, my body be energized for the exam.
Grant me peace, assurance and confidence so that I can do my best. 
May I be honest and insightful and be able to give true record of what I've learned. May you take away my anxiety and feel with joy. I write these exam with the Lord Jesus. In Jesus name I pray. Amen!!!

捐血记

从前遇过不少作文题目是关于捐血的，

可是我从来都没写过之类的题目

因为在还没今天的之前我都没亲身体验过捐血的感受

其实在很久以前我都已经想尝试了

但懦弱的我就是逃不出惧怕的手掌心

说起勇气 我真的没有

但，

有一班好朋友陪在身边

感觉好多了

虽然害怕到流泪

哈哈哈哈哈．．．

其实捐血一点都不痛

但就是非常的害怕．．．

懦弱到～

我今天很开心，我的宝贝血可以帮到有需要的人

我亲爱的朋友们, 你们也应该感觉到开心．．．

因为．．．　．．．

我的''第一次''就这样给了你们^^

wahahahhahahaha:D

opportunity

There always have chance for u 
but just see whether u want to catch this opportunity 
and will u willing to try this or not. 
If yes just try ur best,
even u think that u didnt do well,
but I just want to say something what is on my mind is,
there have no such thing like GENIUS,
what I mean is u are expert in each field
u also know what
everyone taught by other people then after that they only know how to do the thing right?
u know nothing if without people teaching u 
some people really have their ability but they dont know how to use their ability
and some people have no skill but after that they try to train themselves
and keep learning to have more experience
so finally they gain more and know how to use their skill on doing their work.
u are willing to try isnt it?
so what u afraid of?
scientist fail again and again to do the research but they never give up but they willing to try it again and again until successful in their job
If u want to be a successful person u need to accept the failure.
the greater loss is lack of self-confidence,
u dont know whether u can success in ur future or not 
but confidence is the most important thing for us to success.
a successful person is not a person who have fully ability
many of people encountered a lot of failure not they dont have the ability but they have lack of confidence so that they cant get a good fruit.
if u think that u cant do well in something how will u be successful?
I bet other also not dare to give the big project to u .
everybody need to learn how to be more confidence 
once u have confidence nothing is possible
and u will willing to challenge more and more in ur life.

梦

每个人都发过梦
白日梦 恶梦 明星梦
样样的梦.......
都是我们曾经经历过的
我呢?也不例外...
从前总老是发明星梦...
希望有朝一日我会被某家公司看上再把我捧成最红的明星
赚很多很多的钱...
这些只有个'想'字罢了.
相信每个人都希望自己会是个名人更希望自己是个百万甚至亿万富翁!对吧?
生活在这现实的生活里头,你不得不变得现实...
你必须要有学历,有本事...
别老是想着靠运气,不是次次运气都那么好!
有时候必须经历一些事,你才会变得更积极...
发梦不是件坏事
但别把梦和现实搞混了...

如果放不下这个人

如果放不下这个人 你每天都会想知道这个人的消息 就像你说的'我们只是好朋友'

如果放不下这个人 你每天都会自然地查看这个人的部落格是否更新了 就像你说的'我是在关心我的好朋友' 

如果放不下这个人 你每天都期待这个人的电话 他/她的信息 就像你说的'你都不知道我们谈的内容 别想多了' 

如果放不下这个人 你不想也不愿忘记你们从前的点点滴滴 就像你还残留着你们之间的照片和日记
如果放不下这个人 你会想和这个人一起分享喜愁哀乐 就像从前一样 就像你说的'从前我们都是这样 习惯了'
如果放不下这个人 当你知道这个人就在你的视线范围以内 你会时不时瞄他/她一下 就像你说的'我没在看谁 你太敏感了'


你的种种动作 现在的他/她都看在眼里
你可以说他/她敏感 但你应该想想这到底为什么
你也不能怪你现在的他/她在想
当你抱着他/她的时候 心里是否却想着从前的他/她

如果你放不下这个人 

那你就别那么自私了 就认了你依然还是放不下这个人!
你既然放不下这个人或许你也不愿放下 那你就走吧!

别让现在的他/她想一次 痛一次


你不需为即将成为过去的他/她担心
因为他/她不会再在你面前流泪
他/她也不会再那么脆弱 他/她不用你在身边陪伴给安慰
过后的日子都会有时间陪着他/他

就让现在的他/她与你变成回忆吧!
他/她虽然成为过去 但依然会真心祝福你们!

by  一个默默承受一切的他/她