那你...又怀念从前吗?

很多时候人总是说...总是想...

如果没有发生这事那该多好啊...

如果没有发生那事又该多好多好啊...

人总是喜欢想着如果,如果,如果,再如果的...

为什么不就能想着事实,想着最近,想着未来呢...

那些你讨厌的人到底做了什么事可以让你如此地讨厌他们呢?

他们对你做的事情真的都无法原谅吗?

诅咒你,设计你,伤害你,在背后讲你的不是,还有你嫉妒的那些人...

真的有必要那么的讨厌他们吗...

甚至恨得入骨...

因此就做些无谓的东西来破坏那些你们所讨厌的人...

把自己搞到那么累...
这何必呢?
如果有只狗不停地吠你,你会吠回它吗?
如果有个人给你一些没用的东西,你不收你没拿，那东西也不会是你的...
没有一个角落是没有是非的...
人家要说什么就让他们说吧...
不需要以牙还牙...
这样不就显得自己有多没修养了吗?

就不能换个角度来思考一下...

其实你应该感激那些曾经伤害过你的人...

因为有他们...

今天才会有坚强的你不是吗?

经一事,长一智嘛...

如果一路走来都顺顺利利...

那你怎么样成长呢?

嫉妒真是一把刀,

最后不是插在别人身上,就是插在自己心里...

自卑的人总是不甘别人比自己好...

人比人真的比死人...

学会珍惜自己所拥有的不好吗?

如果想要拥有一样东西就自己努力点去争取...

不要觉得自己的命是这样又怎样的...

埋怨来埋怨去的你会得到什么?

从前我也是把自己搞得好累好累...

试想想这又何必呢?

何必如此地为难自己呢?

放过别人也放过自己不是更好吗?

总想着以前以前倒不如计划未来更实际...

有些东西在乎也是多余...

谁没过去啊?

如没过去多无聊啊...

闷的时候都没东西好让你怀念的...

多寂寞啊...呵呵...

过去就是过去....

在意得再多也是改变不了任何已经过去的事了...

这一切的一切都已经变成历史了...

不过无聊的时候也是可以怀念一下下滴...

今日我不再逗留从前...

也不埋怨...

学会感激...

那你...又怀念从前吗?

重感情-是好还是坏?

重感情-是好还是坏?

一直以来都觉得朋友对自己来说是很重要的,

朋友对我而言不是拿来利用,

也不是用来得利益的工具,

所以,

朋友遇到什么困难找我帮忙,

我都很乐意地帮忙,

而且还是真心地想帮忙,

不是因为我很38,很多事,没事找事做,

只是我珍惜朋友之间的感情,之间的友情,

不过,

有时候你对别人好,

别人可不领情,

甚至莫名其妙的在别人后面说你的不是,

还是做一些无聊的事情,

有时候真的很无奈,

也很心痛,

心痛的而不是那些无谓的玩弄,

而是心痛那些真心付出而得回来的回报,

所以人家说真心朋友真的很难找,

找得到的也没几个,

所以要好好珍惜身边的朋友,

我珍惜了...

但......

至今,

我还是很珍惜朋友之间的友情与感情,
那些不懂得珍惜的就当他/她走宝吧！
那些明白我,知道我的人懂得珍惜自己就好了.
为了不珍惜自己的人而伤心难过真的很不值得，

圣经记载说''我们要宽恕别人的过犯,就像我们天上的父宽恕我们一样.''

虽然有时真的很难做到,

但只要在发火之前,

倒数30秒!
什么事都能变没事.

这招确实管用:)

无奈

感觉上其实有很多话想要说，
但想开口时却不知该说些什么。
不知是无法用语言来表达还是不愿诉说。
这种如鲠在喉的感觉真的让人好无奈。
遇到难过心烦的事情也不想哭了，
原来沉默才是最大的折磨，
哀莫大于心死。
纠结~
无路可走的时候，
那也没关系。
痛一痛也就过去了。
也许后面这段日子会更难熬，
但我也得准备好去面对去接受。
呵呵。
生活就是这样，
感情就是这样。

I just want to tell u that I love u

When I first met u , I never would have imagined that I would have such strong feeling for u. I never would have thought that I would have dreams about u or miss being by ur side or get butterflies in my stomach when someone mentions ur name. When I first met u I never would have thought that I would love u. Even thought that's may impossible b with u. But, I did. When I saw u ,there have nothing special .When I meet u there have also nothing happened between u n me. But slowly... All the thing have changed. When I met u ,I was afraid to kiss u . When I kissed u, I was afraid to love u . Now that I love u ,I am afraid to lose u. Now I adore u , I want u , I need u, I cant stop thinking about u, Im crazy about u, I madly desire u,I want nothing more than b with u . I just love u .I just want to tell u 'I love u dear , I never want to let u go'.

得到的永远比不上没得到的

当你还没完全得到那个你心仪的人的时候

所有关于他/她的东西你会很在乎

同时你的blog, fb... ... 都跟他/她扯得上关系

他/她的信息他/她的电话都是你每天必须要收到的

他/她成了你生活的一部分

不管大事或小事你都要告诉他/她

你要和他/她分享每一件事情

你为他/她做任何事

作卡片, 作video...

当你拥有了她... ...

你还会像从前一样的对他/她吗?

得不到的东西往往都是比得到的来的好...

得到的永远比不上没得到的...

就像你很喜欢一样东西

最后你终于得到了

但...过了一段时间

你就不再珍惜那个从前你爱的要生要死的东西了...

很多人认为得不到的都是好的

因为

他们都不知道他/她是怎样的

也许你说了解

但

你真的了解吗?

what a touching song

This song really touch my heart touch my soul...

year 1 sem 2

Time really flies...
it's end of the year 1 sem 2...
and final exam is coming soon...
that's y I'm preparing for the exam now...
doing revision x999999999...
before college life I never ever put my effort on my studies...
now I'm enjoyed myself in my college life all the time...
I believe that it's not too late to be hardworking...
I believe I can do better and better...
dont look back....
a still better tomorrow lies ahead of me...
I believe how much effort I put, how much repay I will get...
''whatever a man sow, that shall he also reap''...
I wont let someone to have a chance to look down on me..
just put effort everything will be ok...
I know that God will always be my side...
I dont need to worry about the test...
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7)
I dont need to worry during the exam I cannot understand the question...
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverb 3:5-6)
I dont need to worry I will be too nervous and unable to concentrate...
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. (John 14:27)
I dont need to worry after exam how is my result..
Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. (Psalm 37:4)
I dont need to worry I cannot pass the exam...
No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. (Corinthians 10:13)
I dont need to worry all such these question...
I just believe in God...

now i pray to LORD...
Heavenly Father, I pray that my mind might be rested, my body be energized for the exam.
Grant me peace, assurance and confidence so that I can do my best. 
May I be honest and insightful and be able to give true record of what I've learned. May you take away my anxiety and feel with joy. I write these exam with the Lord Jesus. In Jesus name I pray. Amen!!!